Hey there :)
You know, one thing about life, we will never be 100% sure that we will be able to stand on our own without our parents' help. Not until when they are really GONE.
Of course, they will question your every move, decisions, friends, whatever things there are in your life. Until they are satisfied with your choice of doing things (after hundreds of arguments and interrogations) only then they'll leave you to your devices. Nags and scoldings are common. Growing up, we develop our own way thinking which mostly consists of things that may differ from our parents' view of things. In some cases, it is good to have a different way of thinking, but there are times when their guidance is much more important than what we have in our mind. Afterall, we have not experienced life that much yet, our parents are the closest to us that can provide us with
advice and tips necessary to go through certain phase of life.
Therefore, it is not necessary to be very rebellious against them just because you didn't get to live your life the way you want it to be. Maybe they don't really understand what you really want, maybe you yourself cannot comprehend what those whispers in your heart trying to tell you. Maybe what you really wanted will harm you very badly, and your parents only wish to not let you to self destruct. In this case, it is better to talk things out with them. They are your parents after all, the ones that brought you into this world, raised your up, etc etc. Understand each other. Work something out. :)
Anyway I miss my papa and mama so much. I'm not home right now, but I will be home this coming June. See you soon, Apa, Ama, xiong dis, inak! :') June is getting closer and closer by the day!
Gonna write again when I'm in the mood or something.
Ciao :)
No comments:
Post a Comment